Mixed Signals

So I like this boy. I won't say names, but let us call him J. I remember seeing him at my new school, on the first day, in my music class. I was checking this other dude out (you know what I'm saying ;) and then J walked in and I was instantly awe stricken. He isn't very tall (around 5'10"), medium brown hair, thin, and amaze-ballz hair. Come to think of it a lot of boys at the school had nice hair. I soon later on in the school year become friends with him and find out he is a complete weirdo like moi. I recently, before the winter holidays, tried to bring the flirt on and it seemed as if he was flirting back. This blog is titled true predictions for a reason. No, not because its funny to say I was reading TP, but because I believe the human instinct can tell us what is going to happen. Just like a bird may fly away and seek shelter from a storm, the human can possibly tell who likes them after first meeting that person. Although I don't technically know whether this J guy likes me or not. Anyway, after the winter break I wanted to ask for a hug so the first friday back from break I asked him for a hug. Keep in mind I have never in my life been rejected a hug before. I mean I am perfection, who could turn all of this down. I built up all this courage to ask for a hug and when I ask he said no! Like wtf it's a hug why would someone say no. This was a very odd thing to experience because I thought the flirting was going well. People have even noticed and have confronted me telling me to ask him to my junior prom (he is a sophomore). I have had many experiences where I can tell whether someone likes me or not and in this occasion I could tell he liked me as more than a friend (or so I thought) because he was always demanding of my attention, he stared at me on multiple occasions, and one of his close friends thought he liked me. I'm too sexy for my shirt, too sexy for my shirt, so sexy it hurts. So having him say no to a hug from me was strange. In this situation, I realized I have to not chase him, but have him chase me. In the end a hug means nothing. In order to test his liking towards me I am going to almost ignore him. I will show no interest and laugh less at his jokes. Not play hard to get, but do as he does and play mixed signals. If you are in a situation where a guy you like is playing mixed signals, try to distant yourself from him a little. Back in the days, the guy would have to chase the woman, so it is in their nature to find their woman. If while you're distancing yourself from him and he is not trying to buy your attention he most likely doesn't like you. Don't be discouraged, there are many more guys out there in the world.

Sincerely,
True Predictions!